Life is like a road. There are long and short roads; smooth and rocky roads; crooked and straight paths. In our life numerous roads would come our way as we trip through life. There are roads that lead to a life of single blessedness, marriage, and religious vocation. There are also roads that lead to fame and fortune on one hand, or insulation and poverty on the other. There are roads to happiness as there are roads to sadness, roads towards palm and jubilation, and roads leading to defeat and disappointment. 

 

 Just like any road, there are corners, divergences, and crossroads in life. maybe the most perplexing road that you would encounter is a crossroad. With four roads to choose from and with limited knowledge on where they would go, which road will you take? What's the guarantee that we'd choose the right one along the way? Would you take any road, or just stay where you're in front of a crossroad? 


 There are no guarantees. 

 

 You don't really know where a road will lead you until you take it. There are no guarantees. This is one of the most important effects you need to realize about life. nothing said that choosing to do the right thing all the time would always lead you to happiness. Loving someone with all your heart doesn't guarantee that it would be returned. Gaining fame and fortune doesn't guarantee happiness. Accepting a good word from an influential superior to cut your trip suddenly up the career graduation isn't always bad, especially if you're largely good and competent. There are too numerous possible issues, which your really can not control. The only thing you have power over is the opinions that you'll make, and how you would act and reply to different situations. 


 

 Wrong opinions are always at hindsight. 

 Had you known that you were making a wrong decision, would you have gone on with it? maybe not, why would you choose a certain path when you know it would get you lost? Why make a certain decision if you knew from the very morning that it isn't the right bone

 . It's only after you have made a decision and reflected on it that you realize itssoundness.However, also you have decided rightly, If the consequences or issues are good for you. else, your decision was wrong. 

 

 

 Take the threat decide. 


 Since life offers no guarantee and you would noway know that your decision would be wrong until you have made it, also you might as well take the threat and decide. It's surely better than keeping yourself in limbo. Although it's true that one wrong turn could get you lost, it could also be that such a turn could be an occasion for an adventure, also open more roads. It's all a matter of perspective. You have the choice between being a lost rubberneck or an accidental sightseer of life. But take caution that you don't make opinions aimlessly. Taking pitfalls isn't about being careless and stupid. Then are some pointers that could help you choose the stylish option in the face of life’s crossroads 

 · Get as numerous information as you can about your situation. 

You can not find the confidence to decide when you know so little about what you're faced with. Just like any news journalist, ask the 5 W’s what, who, when, where, and why. What's the situation? Who are the people involved? When did this be? Where is this leading? Why are you in this situation? These are just some of the possible questions to ask to know further about your situation. This is important. hourly, the reason for vacillation is the lack of information about a situation. 

 

 · Identify and produce options. 

What options do the situation give you? occasionally the options are many, but occasionally they're multitudinous. But what do you do when you suppose that the situation offers no options? This is the time that you produce your own. Make your creative mind work. From the most simplistic to the most complicated, entertain all ideas. Don't shoot anything down when an idea comes to your head. occasionally the most outrageous idea could prove to be the right bone

 in the end. You can ask a friend to help you identify options and indeed make further options if you encounter some difficulty, but make sure that you make the decision yourself in the end. 

 

 · Weigh the pros and cons of every option. 

 Assess each option by looking at the advantages and disadvantages it offers you. In this way, you get further perceptivity about the consequences of such an option. 

 

 · Trust yourself and make that decision. 

 Now that you have assessed your options, it's now time to trust yourself. Flash back that there are no guarantees and wrong opinions are always at hindsight. So choose decide believe that you're choosing the stylish option at this point in time. 

 

 

 Now that you have made a decision, be ready to face its consequences good and bad. It may take you to a place of pledge or to a land of problems. But the important thing is that you have chosen to live your life rather of remaining a observer or a unresistant followership to your own life. Whether it's the right decision or not, only time can tell. But don't lament it whatever the outgrowth. rather, learn from it and flash back that you always have the chance to make better opinions in the future.